Which one is true: People change, or do they always stay the same?
Obviously we change, develop from a baby to someone with hobbies and dislikes, preferences, and experience. Then again we sometimes develop habits that will never leave us, maybe this means we cheat, or like to have everything perfectly in order. Which on is true?
Can they both be true, applying to different circumstances or even different people all together?
I think everyone is so different in so many ways (obviously you know this too) but what differences really define us as an individual?
Example: I am a writer, she is a dancer.
In this situation our hobbies define us.
Example: He has cancer, she has been in remission for six years.
Does the condition define them, or life and death?
Example: Mom likes to drink, Dad likes to smoke.
Both can kill you, what’s the different?
I could go on and on for days with all the things that make me different from you, but at what point do you distinguish me as someone not in your circle? What makes someone really enjoy your company?
The question I suppose I really want to know the answer to is why does it matter?
Example: I like to write, and my sister likes to dance.
Different hobbies, same blood.
Example: They met during treatment, she is still fighting for him.
Example: They picked up bad habits after the unthinkable happened to them.
We are all different, and for our own reasons, so what makes it okay for you to judge someone else for dealing with their life the way that makes sense to them? This life is so complicated because of the countless things that can happen right before your eyes, good or bad. We cannot sit by and continue to judge our fellow humans, instead we need to know when to help, how to address a situation, how to sit before someone and just be there with an open mind.
We are constantly finding reasons to dislike people, and I cannot figure out why. It isn’t more fun, it’s sad that people have become so cliche in such an inhumane way.
That we have to drill it into peoples heads to be nice, because it isn’t the natural way of things anymore. Reminders or happiness and hope are being spread by few to the many who have forgotten. When will we be kind? When will you smile?